Spicy Questions to ask your Boyfriend for Flirting

Relationships aren’t always rainbows and unicorns.

Sometimes you have to traverse through uncomfortable waters. Sometimes it becomes really difficult to keep the spark alive.

In times like these, when even date nights fail to keep the charm alive, your old friend “Texting” comes to your help.

To make things even easier, we bring to you a compilation of 120 flittery, flirty and playful texts that you can send your beau.

1. Flirty Fun Starters

Break the ice with playful and teasing questions that keep things light and cheeky.

What’s the first thing you noticed about me that made you want to flirt?
Would you rather cuddle for hours or sneak in a few steamy kisses?
Have you ever had a crush on someone just from texting?
What outfit of mine drives you wild every time?
On a scale from 1 to 10, how kissable do you think I am right now?
What emoji makes you think of me?
What’s the most random thing that turns you on?
If I dared you to kiss me in public, would you?
Would you rather slow dance with me or have a spontaneous make-out session?
How often do you daydream about me?
What’s your favorite pet name to call me when no one’s listening?
If you had me all to yourself right now, what would we be doing?

2. Spicy Texting Vibes

Add heat to your chats with questions perfect for late-night texts or playful DMs.

What would you do if I texted you a flirty selfie right now?
Have you ever re-read my texts just to smile?
If I texted “I’m bored 😏” at midnight, how would you reply?
What’s the spiciest message you’ve ever sent me?
Would you rather receive a voice note or a pic from me?
Do you keep any of my texts/screenshots because they’re too hot to delete?
Ever typed something to me and deleted it because it was too much?
What’s your favorite flirty gif to send me?
If I sent “come over,” what’s your ETA?
Which emoji would you use to describe our chemistry?
What’s a text from me that instantly makes your heart race?
Have you ever smiled at your phone because of me?

3. Bold and Cheeky

Get daring with questions that show confidence and flirtation without going too far.

What’s something you’ve wanted to say to me but haven’t dared yet?
What’s your favorite part of my body to look at… and touch?
Would you rather me whisper something naughty or kiss your neck?
What’s one thing you wish I did more often?
Have you ever had a flirty dream about me?
What’s the boldest thing you’d do with me in public?
Would you survive a round of truth or dare with me?
What’s a challenge you’d give me that ends in kissing?
Have you ever thought about us doing something a little wild?
If I told you I’m not wearing what you think I am… your move?
What’s one thing I could say right now to make you blush?
Would you rather blindfold me or be blindfolded?

4. Heat Level Rising

Turn up the dial with intimate and teasing questions to build anticipation.

What’s something I do that instantly makes your thoughts go there?
If I kissed you right now, where would things go next?
How do you feel when I wear your hoodie… and only your hoodie?
Have you ever wanted to pull me aside at a party just for us?
What’s the one look I give you that you can’t resist?
Do you like it better when I make the first move?
If I whispered in your ear right now, would you shiver?
What’s one thing we haven’t done… but you think about?
Have you ever wanted to take a spontaneous trip… just for some alone time?
Do you prefer soft and slow or fast and fiery?
What’s your favorite way I tease you?
If I leaned in real close and didn’t say a word, what would you do?

5. Relationship Glow-Up

Mix spice with sweetness while getting closer and more aligned as a couple.

What’s your favorite memory of just the two of us?
What do you think makes our connection different from anyone else’s?
How do I make you feel safe and sexy?
What’s one thing I do that makes you feel really loved?
When did you first know you wanted to be more than friends?
What’s your favorite compliment I’ve ever given you?
What’s something we should try together for the first time?
Do you feel like we keep our spark alive?
What’s one romantic thing you’ve always wanted us to do?
If we could relive one date night, which one would it be?
How do you want us to grow together in love and in spice?
What’s your favorite part about being in a relationship with me?

6. Silly but Sizzling

Have fun and flirt while laughing together—because playfulness is sexy too.

If we were a couple in a rom-com, which spicy scene would we be in?
What’s the most ridiculous flirty thing you’ve ever done?
Would you rather be trapped in a closet with me or on a deserted island?
What’s your “flirt with me” face look like?
If I made you laugh and blush, would I be your favorite person?
Who would win in a tickle fight: you or me?
What’s your “secret weapon” when you’re trying to charm me?
If I dared you to serenade me right now, what song would you pick?
What’s a goofy thing we’ve done that still makes you smile?
Would you survive a kissing game with me without laughing?
What’s one weird but hot fantasy you’ve had?
If we had our own love language, what would it be called?

7. In the Mood Questions

Set the vibe for romance, closeness, and those “just us” moments.

What kind of mood are you usually in when you miss me?
Candlelight, music, or silence—what sets the mood best?
Do you like it when I surprise you with a kiss or a question like this?
What’s your ideal way to end a perfect night with me?
How do you know I’m in the mood just from a look?
What’s your go-to way to flirt with me when no one’s watching?
Would you rather slow dance or stargaze with me tonight?
How do you want me to initiate a romantic moment?
What’s the best time of day to be close to me?
What mood are you usually in when we cuddle?
What’s one thing I could say to change your entire vibe?
What does romance mean to you when it’s just the two of us?

8. Fantasy Zone

Let your imagination run wild together with fun and spicy “what if” questions.

What’s one fantasy you’ve never told anyone but might tell me?
If we had a weekend with no rules, what would we do?
Would you rather roleplay or go skinny dipping?
If you could teleport us anywhere for a spicy night, where are we going?
What if we had a secret place just for us—what would it look like?
Ever imagined us sneaking away from an event to be alone?
What movie scene do you secretly wish we could recreate?
Would you rather act out a fantasy or create a new one with me?
What’s the most daring thing you’d do for a thrill with me?
What’s something that would surprise me about your imagination?
If I wrote a flirty story about us, what should it be called?
How would you feel if I made your fantasy come true?

9. Confidence Boosters

Remind each other how hot and desirable you are—flirty compliments encouraged.

What’s the sexiest thing about me, in your opinion?
When do I look most irresistible to you?
If you had to brag about me to your friends, what would you say?
What’s one thing you admire about my confidence?
What’s your favorite compliment you’ve ever received from me?
What do you think I don’t realize about how attractive I am?
What’s one thing I wear that makes you stare?
Do you like it when I take charge or when you’re in control?
How do I make you feel like the hottest person in the room?
If I kissed you right now, would you still be able to focus?
What’s your favorite thing I do when I’m being playful?
How do I boost your mood without even trying?

10. Relationship Goals—Spicy Edition

Spice up your future plans with bold dreams and flirty commitment vibes.

Where’s one place you want to take me for a romantic escape?
What’s one spicy tradition we should start as a couple?
Would you rather cook dinner together or dance in the kitchen after dark?
What’s something sexy you want to do for our anniversary?
How do you want to keep the spark alive long-term?
What’s your idea of a romantic getaway for just us?
Do you want to create a couples bucket list—with fun and flirty goals?
What’s one spicy surprise you want to plan for me?
How do you picture us being adventurous… even years from now?
Would you ever write me a flirty letter to open later?
What’s your idea of a perfect “relationship goals” day?
What’s one thing you want us to never stop doing?