‘Would you Rather’ Questions for Couples

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Every relationship requires understanding.

And what better way than to play a simple texting game?

The would you rather genre of questions is a rather interesting lot to dabble with.

So, we bring to you a collection of question ideas that you can ask your partner.

1. Romantic Vibes

Heartwarming choices to deepen the love and affection.

  • Would you rather cuddle under the stars or by the fireplace?

  • Would you rather write me a love letter or sing me a love song?

  • Would you rather go on a sunset cruise or a candlelit dinner?

  • Would you rather have a long kiss or a long hug?

  • Would you rather relive our first date or our first kiss?

  • Would you rather dance slowly in the kitchen or under moonlight?

  • Would you rather spend a rainy day inside together or run through the rain hand-in-hand?

  • Would you rather be surprised with flowers or handwritten notes?

  • Would you rather wake up to breakfast in bed or a surprise morning kiss?

  • Would you rather plan a romantic getaway or a cozy staycation?

2. Flirty & Fun

Spice it up with playful and cheeky dilemmas.

  • Would you rather play ‘truth or dare’ or ‘strip poker’ with me?

  • Would you rather send flirty texts all day or receive spicy selfies?

  • Would you rather kiss me in public or secretly in an elevator?

  • Would you rather flirt with me over dinner or over video call?

  • Would you rather plan a seductive surprise or receive one?

  • Would you rather get caught kissing or caught whispering naughty things?

  • Would you rather tease me with a look or with a touch?

  • Would you rather share a bubble bath or a shower together?

  • Would you rather have a steamy kiss in the rain or in the car?

  • Would you rather whisper sweet nothings or dirty secrets?

3. Future Dreams

Explore your shared goals and long-term hopes.

  • Would you rather live in the city or the countryside together?

  • Would you rather have a big family or just the two of us?

  • Would you rather build a dream home or travel the world?

  • Would you rather start a business together or support each other’s careers?

  • Would you rather retire early and chill or work together on passion projects?

  • Would you rather live near the beach or in the mountains?

  • Would you rather adopt a child or a pet first?

  • Would you rather host big family holidays or escape them just us?

  • Would you rather save money for experiences or for luxury items?

  • Would you rather renew our vows every year or on milestone anniversaries?

4. Deep Connection

Questions to open hearts and minds.

  • Would you rather hear my thoughts or feel my emotions?

  • Would you rather relive one moment with me or erase one regret?

  • Would you rather never fight or always resolve fights in a day?

  • Would you rather know everything about my past or my future?

  • Would you rather talk for hours or cuddle in silence?

  • Would you rather cry in front of me or comfort me when I cry?

  • Would you rather grow old with me or be young with me forever?

  • Would you rather tell me your deepest fear or hear mine?

  • Would you rather experience every joy together or share every pain?

  • Would you rather write a love story or live one?

5. Funny & Lighthearted

Silly, cute questions to make you both laugh.

  • Would you rather laugh uncontrollably on a date or snort while laughing?

  • Would you rather have matching onesies or matching pajamas?

  • Would you rather make silly faces in selfies or do goofy dances together?

  • Would you rather always talk in baby voice or sing everything?

  • Would you rather trip on our first date or spill food on yourself?

  • Would you rather plan a prank or be the one getting pranked?

  • Would you rather do a TikTok challenge together or a dance battle?

  • Would you rather binge kids’ cartoons or old rom-coms?

  • Would you rather dress in costumes for fun or wear matching t-shirts on vacation?

  • Would you rather get caught having a pillow fight or dancing in the living room?

6. Travel Together

Wanderlust dilemmas for the adventure-hungry duo.

  • Would you rather explore a new city or revisit a favorite one?

  • Would you rather go on a backpacking trip or a luxury cruise?

  • Would you rather travel for food or for adventure?

  • Would you rather take a road trip or fly first-class?

  • Would you rather stay in a cabin in the woods or a beachfront villa?

  • Would you rather get lost in a foreign country or follow a strict itinerary?

  • Would you rather take a spontaneous weekend trip or a year-long world tour?

  • Would you rather explore historical sites or scenic nature spots?

  • Would you rather try exotic street food or eat at Michelin-star restaurants?

  • Would you rather travel solo then reunite or never travel without each other?

7. Date Night Dilemmas

Decide how to spend quality time together.

  • Would you rather cook dinner together or go out to eat?

  • Would you rather do a movie night or game night?

  • Would you rather go to a concert or a comedy show?

  • Would you rather have a picnic or eat at a rooftop restaurant?

  • Would you rather do a paint-and-sip or pottery class?

  • Would you rather try a new hobby or learn each other’s hobbies?

  • Would you rather take a dance class or a fitness class together?

  • Would you rather do a spa night or karaoke night?

  • Would you rather go stargazing or city light watching?

  • Would you rather dress up or wear cozy clothes?

8. Intimacy & Affection

For moments that bring physical closeness and comfort.

  • Would you rather kiss for a minute or hug for ten?

  • Would you rather hold hands all day or snuggle all night?

  • Would you rather hear “I love you” or feel it in actions?

  • Would you rather fall asleep together or wake up next to each other?

  • Would you rather slow dance to no music or get lost in a gaze?

  • Would you rather have forehead kisses or neck kisses?

  • Would you rather cuddle during a movie or after one?

  • Would you rather be the big spoon or little spoon?

  • Would you rather make out in the rain or under the stars?

  • Would you rather rest your head on my chest or my shoulder?

9. Spicy Side

Add a little heat and cheeky fun to the mix.

  • Would you rather kiss me passionately or tease me all day?

  • Would you rather hear my fantasy or tell me yours?

  • Would you rather have a steamy night in or a flirty night out?

  • Would you rather blindfold or be blindfolded?

  • Would you rather whisper naughty secrets or write them down?

  • Would you rather play a romantic game or a spicy challenge?

  • Would you rather get caught kissing or caught doing something spicier?

  • Would you rather sext during the day or have a steamy call at night?

  • Would you rather explore slowly or dive right in?

  • Would you rather recreate a romantic scene or invent our own?

10. Life Choices Together

Test how aligned your values and big decisions are.

  • Would you rather save for a house or splurge on experiences?

  • Would you rather live near family or far away in peace?

  • Would you rather adopt many pets or have none?

  • Would you rather stick to routine or live spontaneously?

  • Would you rather follow your heart or your head in life decisions?

  • Would you rather live in one place forever or move every few years?

  • Would you rather handle finances together or divide responsibilities?

  • Would you rather chase success or live simply and happily?

  • Would you rather have kids early or later in life?

  • Would you rather grow through challenges or avoid all hardships?

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These questions are deep but appear to be fun.

It is an amazing way to beat the boredom of simple texting.

Let us know which category you liked the best.

 

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