11 Spicy Games to Play-Over-Text (with Boyfriend, Girlfriend)

Long distance is scary!!

It comes with a risk factor nobody can anticipate.

Hence, these relationships require twice the effort, patience, and care.

At the same time, they require that extra spice and oomph agent to keep that spark alive.

Thus, we bring to you an amazing collection of 12 texting games that you can play with your long-distance beau.

1. Flirty Truth or Dare

A classic with a twist—this version keeps things light, daring, and just a little bold over text.

Requirements:

  • Phone

  • Willingness to be playful and honest

How to Play:

Take turns texting “Truth or Dare?” If they choose truth, ask a juicy question. If they pick dare, assign something fun they can prove with a selfie, audio, or emoji. Keep it flirty but respectful, and don’t be afraid to laugh at the awkward moments.


2. Would You Rather – Couple’s Edition

A spicy spin on the classic game that reveals what you both crave, love, or secretly fantasize about.

Requirements:

  • List of fun, romantic, or cheeky questions

How to Play:

Text back and forth with “Would you rather” scenarios—like “Would you rather cuddle all night or kiss in the rain?” The more imaginative or spicy you get, the more sparks you’ll create. It’s perfect for playful teasing and getting to know your partner’s preferences.


3. Emoji Roleplay

A fun and flirtatious game where emojis tell a cheeky story.

Requirements:

  • Keyboard with emojis

  • A little creativity

How to Play:

Start a “story” using only emojis—something like 🍕🏠😏💋. The other person guesses what it means, then continues the story. You can keep it PG or lean into a more romantic or suggestive storyline. It’s surprisingly fun and full of unexpected laughs.


4. 5-Word Fantasies

Share bold daydreams, but keep it short and spicy—only five words at a time.

Requirements:

  • Text messaging

  • Imagination

How to Play:

Take turns texting mini fantasies in just five words—like “Beach. Sunset. Kiss. Yours. Forever.” or “Elevator. Close. Breathless. Touch. Lips.” Try guessing the meaning or build on each other’s texts. It’s simple, mysterious, and steamy without being too much.


5. Screenshot Me

A daring game where screenshots or photos are part of the challenge.

Requirements:

  • Phone camera

  • Boundaries and trust

How to Play:

Send a playful text like, “Screenshot your search history” or “Send me your most-used emoji combo.” You can spice things up with selfies or secret messages written on paper. Just remember—consent and comfort are everything in this one!


6. Text Strip Game

For when you’re feeling bold and flirty, even if you’re miles apart.

Requirements:

  • Trust and a private conversation

  • A sense of humor and comfort

How to Play:

Take turns completing a silly challenge or answering a naughty question. Every time one is missed or skipped, the “penalty” is to take off one (imaginary) item of clothing. It’s suggestive, fun, and all in the imagination—unless you decide otherwise.


7. Never Have I Ever – Text Mode

The classic party game made personal and cheeky for one-on-one texting.

Requirements:

  • A few spicy questions ready

How to Play:

Text “Never have I ever…” and share something bold or romantic. If the other person has, they confess or respond with an emoji (like 🔥 or 😳). It quickly turns flirty, revealing, and full of giggles.


8. Dirty Hangman

Guess the word—but the stakes get more fun with every wrong letter.

Requirements:

  • Pen and paper (optional)

  • Flirty or cheeky words

How to Play:

Think of a spicy word or phrase and send blanks like “_ _ _ _ _ _.” The other person guesses letters. Each wrong guess comes with a small “penalty” like sending a flirty message or answering a daring question. The reveal can lead to some steamy follow-up.


9. Virtual “Hot or Not”

Swap photos, ideas, or fantasies and give your honest (and flirty) reaction.

Requirements:

  • Text or photo-sharing

  • Openness to share tastes and opinions

How to Play:

Text each other things—like outfit ideas, celebrity crushes, or fantasy scenarios—and say “Hot 🔥” or “Not ❌.” It’s a great way to learn about your crush’s preferences and turn up the teasing without crossing comfort lines.


10. Voice Note Seduction

A slow-burn game of voice messages that build tension and mystery.

Requirements:

  • Voice note feature

  • Confidence and curiosity

How to Play:

Send a short, whispered voice message—maybe a compliment, a flirty question, or a mysterious sentence. They respond in kind, and the exchange gets more personal or steamy with each round. It’s a fun way to build chemistry beyond the keyboard.


11. “This or That” – Flirty Edition

A fast-paced question game to test your chemistry and learn each other’s desires.

Requirements:

  • A playful mindset

  • Text message

How to Play:

Fire off quick pairs like “Chocolate or strawberries?” or “Slow kisses or wild make-outs?” and have them reply instantly. You can go from cute to spicy depending on the mood. The goal is to keep the pace snappy and the banter flowing.


12. Confess or Tease

Choose to reveal a secret—or tease without spilling the full story.

Requirements:

  • Trust and comfort

  • Sense of fun

How to Play:

Each person takes turns texting “Confess or Tease?” If they choose confess, they share a real secret. If they pick tease, they give a mysterious hint—like “It happened in a car, but that’s all you get 😏.” It builds curiosity and flirtation in all the right ways.


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LDRs can be fun.

Some consider it healthy even.

Ultimately what matters is how you handle it.

Take a pick from the list.

Let us know which one you liked the best.


 

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